Who sets your mood?

We made it to Sunday and it's clear who has set the mood around here.  I grew up in a very loving and pleasant household.  My dad had an occasional beer and I think I've seen my mom drink alcohol once in 38 years.  Over consumption of alcohol and the behavior that goes with it were a college behavior. You know, one you jump head first into between 18-22, then slowly start to outgrow.  Just because someone drinks too much on Friday, doesn't mean it my fault come Sunday.  I took the kids out today for some errands.  The kids and I even stayed home from church.  I know a lot of this doesn't make sense to an outsider.  It's thoughts I need to get out of my mind.